Ancestral PreConception

  • after really solid connect with guides is made, asking guides tender question: is my body, right now, the right way to become a parent?

    • if so, show me how, show me what needs healed first, what’s needed

    • if not, then show me how i might become a parent in a really aligned, good way for me and potential child. show me what to do with my longing for child.

    • this is a negotiation! a conversation! we work with the spirit side, we aim to be humble. we bring our longing and love to them and they show us how to apply it to our lived experience.

  • meet potential children with help of guides

  • what needs sorted out energetically between gestational/pregnant parent and bio co-conception parent (also donors). (perhaps place here for commitment ceremony between all parents involved--so that child knows who parents are)

  • what needs to be sorted out in house physically!! babies/ancestors might have real needs that be changed (like get rid of all the x stuff you have, or turn off wifi, or...anything) in house in order for them to feel comfy coming

  • what are traditional foods that support fertility in your people? ask guides what to make. fish, eggs, liver, marrow...etc. prepare these and wholeheartedly connect to them as much as possible.

  • Establishing protection -- clear the field!

  • Intake of what needs to be adjusted on a body level, herbal consult from guides

    • super tender question that I think is good to bring to guides, which is: is now and my body/person wanting to be pregnant's body the good way to become a parent? To make space for the fact that sometimes the ancestors will say no, and will have an alternate route to being a parent besides bio conception that is just the way it's supposed to be. We should find a way to weave this basic question in without being super drama about it.

  • All the trouble in the lineages esp about sex

  • Opportunity to do this work and receive benefit/gift from it in this time

  • Working with sperm/egg donors’ guides

  • Your own conception - cultural healing about this, the ways being conceive in the family, patterns of this (esp most recent 3-4 generations)

  • Clarity on one’s own intentions for conceiving -- supports the intention of the one coming in